What do you really want to be doing right now? Many people might answer “nothing”. Some might answer “traveling”. Some might say “not this”. But I’d dare say that very few people would respond with “exactly what I’m doing now”. There’s a common experience among us humans that we not only aren’t where we truly want to be–vocationally, financially, emotionally, spiritually, physically–but most of us don’t have a clear path in that direction; the direction we’d rather go toward the destination at which we’d rather be.
You may consider this to be far too simple and that’s okay. Like Lynyrd Skynyrd, I’m a simple man. I like simple things.
Many of us look at our visions of where we’d rather be and immediately we see obstacles, reasons we can’t, and excuses that stand directly and seemingly immovably between us and the vision. I want to move, as in buy a different house than I’m currently living in. I want a different view out the front window. A different address. As soon as I think those thoughts, I also think, “Now’s not the time. I can’t do that. I have too much to do with this house to get it ready to sell. The market isn’t right. I don’t want to start my mortgage clock over again. A new place comes with new problems. There are too many steps between wanting to buying a new home and laying your head down on your pillow in your new home. Nope. I can’t.”
You do this too, right? We all turn “wants” into “can’ts” without anyone’s help. The progression is lightning fast and concludes with you right where you are: 1. I want to… 2. I can’t… 3. I won’t. (I was tempted to throw in a “Gimme Three Steps” joke here, but two Skynyrd references is one post is too much, I think.)
But what if you started something? What if you could see a small “can” right in front of you right now? It’s not the big WANT, it’s a small can. What if the can’t you feel were easily kicked by the can you can?
What’s your small can? Don’t “shouldn’t” it to death. Don’t rationalize your inactivity regarding it. See that can and do it. And do it now.
Right now, I can write a page of that book I’ve wanted to write.
Right now, I can lift both legs under my desk and tighten my abs for 10, 20, or 30 seconds.
Right now, I can click “contact agent” under that house listing I’ve been looking at.
Right now, I can text or call that estranged relative or friend.
Right now, I can take the $3 in my wallet and fold it in half as a reminder not to spend it and start a habit of saving.
Right now, I can sign up for updates on Indeed and entire the criteria for that job type I really want to get alerted when those kinds of jobs are available.
Right now, I can do something that makes me more excellent at the job I currently have.
Right now, I can stand up and walk for 10 minutes to clear my mind and relieve stress.
Right now, I can give faith a shot and have a conversation with God.
Right now, I can read one article or watch one short video about that hobby I want to take up.
Right now, I can order those running shoes.
Right now, I can pull up my calendar and start getting my days and tasks more organized.
What can you do, even the smallest of “cans”, right now in order to take you closer to where you want to be?